Matt Damon Told His Wife in Couples Therapy That He’d Take an Acting Break Unless ‘Nolan Called’ — Then He Received ‘Oppenheimer’ Offer

Matt Damon revealed in an interview with Entertainment Weekly that Christopher Nolan found his way into one of the actors couples therapy sessions. While avoiding marital specifics, Damon said that he told his wife he would take an acting break on only one condition: If Christopher Nolan called, the break could go on hold. His wife agreed to the terms.

As fate would have it, Nolan did call with an offer for Damon to star in Oppenheimer.

This is going to sound made up, but its actually true, Damon said. I had not to get too personal negotiated extensively with my wife that I was taking time off. I had been in Interstellar and then Chris put me on ice for a couple of movies, so I wasnt in the rotation, but I actually negotiated in couples therapy this is a true story the one caveat to my taking time off was if Chris Nolan called. This is without knowing whether or not he was working on anything, because he never tells you. He just calls you out of the blue. And so, it was a moment in my household.

Nolan called Damon to offer him the role of Leslie Groves, who was the director of the Manhattan Project. Groves chose Los Alamos, N.M. as one of several testing sites for the development of the atomic bomb. He also personally recruited J. Robert Oppenheimer (played by Cillian Murphy) to lead the charge at Los Alamos a divisive choice at the time as Oppenheimer lacked a Nobel Prize and administrative leadership experience.

Murphy got his own unexpected call from Nolan with an offer to play the lead role.

Hes so understated and self-deprecating and, in his very English manner, just said, Listen, Ive written this script, its about Oppenheimer. Id like you to be my Oppenheimer, Murphy told Associated Press earlier this year. It was a great day We have this long-standing understanding and trust and shorthand and respect. It felt like the right time to take on a bigger responsibility. And it just so happened that it was a huge one.

[Its] a fun way to do it, Nolan told Entertainment Weekly about surprise offers over the phone. But it means that its very difficult to call you to go out to dinner or something. Because every time you answer the phone its like,whats it going to be?

Oppenheimer opens in theaters nationwide July 21 from Universal Pictures.